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So,
tell me, what do you know about
families? What they actually are? First of all, something
very important to know is that every person, every single person has OR
had a family. The family is actually an organization of related people
where basic needs are met and also where they learn their first values
and beliefs. Family is a non-material culture element because it is an
idea of people related by children, a common ancestor, marriage or
blood. Still don’t get what a family really is right? A family could
just be many friends with really strong feelings for each other. It
could also be related people that might just get together sometimes, but
mostly it is a family of related people like children, their parents,
their uncles, their aunts, their cousins and sometimes a friend or two.
Values and beliefs are mostly learned within related families. Values
and beliefs are like a person’s religion, what they believe in. For
example, somebody’s parents or the whole family are catholic and they
teach the children all about it, their beliefs and anything related to
it. This has something to do with the parents in Brazilian families.
Brazil has the most Christians in the world. This means that most of the
families are Christian, and Brazilians are very dedicated to their
religion. This sometimes takes up families’ time to pray, go to the
church and other things. Fathers are bit more powerful than mothers with
the religion and traditional roles involving religion.
I’ll
help you understand about families in general, parents and children in
Brazil. First, I’ll tell you about the families in Brazil. All families
have relationships. Some of those relationships are by blood with a
common ancestor among people. Blood relationships are people who along
the years got separated into two different families but still have the
same blood. Ancestor relationships are for example: someone gets married
once and has a child or many children, then that person leaves that
family and marries someone else and has children with them. Then, the
two families grow differently but they still have that one common
ancestor. Families in Brazil, and Brazilians, give high importance to
families or to close friends. Usually, Brazilian families have a wide
circle of uncles, aunts and cousins.
After that, parents in Brazil play an important
role in their families. Mothers for example, are usually the head of
their home, the “Leader”. She is responsible for taking care of the
house, the children, make the food and in general, help anyone or
anything in the house. Mothers most of the time do not work because they
have to stay home and take care of everything. Fathers are usually the
ones who leave and work because the women stays at home helping the
house but someone has to work, to raise everyone in the house and help.
Sometimes all of this is causes too much stress because the mother never
helps the father, the father is never home and sometimes they separate
or divorce. That is why in Brazil separation or divorce is very common.
Finally there are the children in the family. To
start talking about children, I’ll give my own opinion about them in a
family. I think that children sometimes are the ones to connect two
people, two families, and two form strong connections. In Brazil, many
sometimes adopt children from other families or marriages. Also, it is
common for families in Brazil to have 5 to 7 children and some may have
even 15 children. Now you should know a bit more about general Brazilian
families, parents and children in Brazil, now that I helped you
understand them.
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